Why EQ Is Every Leader’s Superpower
- Imogen de Vries
- Oct 23
- 3 min read
Unlocking influence, empathy, and resilience in the modern workplace.

Gone are the days when a leader’s success was measured purely by authority and control.
Think back to a leader who made a lasting impact on you – for better or worse. What is it that you remember most? Was it their technical expertise? Or was it how they empowered, supported, and truly connected with those around them?
With a growing emphasis on people leadership and employee wellbeing, emotional intelligence is proving to be the hidden key to unlocking a leader’s – and an organisation’s – full potential.
What Is Emotional Intelligence and Why Does It Matter?
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to perceive, understand, and manage your own emotions, while also being able to recognise the emotions of others. It’s not about being overly emotional – it’s about being emotionally aware, intentional, and adaptable.
Research shows that employees with high emotional intelligence tend to earn higher salaries, get promoted more often, and perform better at work. But EQ isn’t just an individual advantage – it has far-reaching implications for teams, culture, and leadership effectiveness.
Emotionally Intelligent Leadership
Leadership isn’t just about making the right strategic decisions – it’s about bringing people with you. Emotionally intelligent leaders are better equipped to manage pressure, navigate difficult conversations, inspire trust, and connect with people from all backgrounds.
High-EQ leaders:
Stay calm under pressure and respond rather than react
Create psychologically safe environments where people feel heard and valued
Understand their own triggers and regulate their responses
Lead with empathy, not ego
Are more likely to build loyal, motivated, and high-performing teams
Employees and organisations expect more from their leaders than ever before, that’s why emotional intelligence isn’t just a ‘nice to have’.
Can EQ Be Developed? (Spoiler: Yes)
Unlike personality, which tends to remain stable over time, emotional intelligence can be developed. While some people may have a natural aptitude for certain aspects of EQ, the core areas – such as self-awareness, stress management, effective decision-making, and relationship management – are skills that can be learned, practised, and improved.
Psychological research supports the idea that emotional intelligence isn’t fixed. With reflection, feedback, and intentional development, leaders can strengthen their ability to manage emotions, build meaningful relationships, and lead with greater empathy and impact.
Tools such as the EQ-i 2.0 (a robust emotional intelligence assessment), EQ Extra (a series of practical development videos), and coaching can help pinpoint development areas and accelerate growth – giving space for leaders to recognise, monitor, and take action.
EQ Is the Edge Leaders Can’t Ignore
With modern technologies and shifting workplace priorities, emotionally intelligent leadership is more important than ever. As artificial intelligence (AI) continues to transform the way we work – automating tasks, analysing data, and supporting decision-making – concerns around the dehumanisation of the workplace are growing.
While AI offers efficiency, objectivity, and scale, it cannot replicate the connection, care, or contextual understanding that emotionally intelligent leaders bring. When it comes to trust, empathy, and culture, the human element still matters most.
The future isn’t AI vs EI – it’s AI + EI.
Rather than choosing between artificial intelligence and emotional intelligence, future-fit leaders will combine both. They’ll leverage AI to drive efficiency and insights, while relying on EQ to connect with people, lead through uncertainty, and shape thriving, human-centred workplaces that exhibit psychological safety.
In an age of automation, emotional intelligence is every leader’s superpower.



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